Losing the woman that you love the most is never easy to overcome. Your heart shattered immediately when you hear the word “break up” from your girlfriend. You tried hard to get over this break up but it seems that you can’t get her out of your head. You wanted very much to get her back to your arms but the problem is you do not know how to get your girlfriend back.
Do not show your desperation
Sometime when a person have to overcome a sudden break up, they may find themselves resorting to desperate measures to get their girlfriend back. They try to hound their girlfriend by calling or sending them text messages non stop. They appear at her workplace or house. Worst of all, they attempt to do foolish things like crying, kneeling and begging in front of her. Some even tried to commit suicide. By doing all these is not showing your love on her. You are actually trying to use guilt as a way to get your girlfriend back to you. Even if they have decided to go back to you, the problem will still exist and the relationship will not be happy.
Do not apologize for everything
The moment that you knew that she is leaving you, you tried to calm her down by apologizing for everything even when you know it was not your fault. Did you realize that she get angrier even if you have already apologized? You do not care about what was really happening between both of you, all you wanted is to stop your girlfriend from leaving you. Even if you had already apologized umpteen times, the problem is still there. By saying sorry will not solve everything.
You sent her flowers, cards or gifts
Trying to be romantic at this moment? All these tactics will not work anymore. I am not saying that it is no good to send all these little thoughts to your girlfriend but definitely not doing all these at this moment because she is still feeling emotional and what she wanted now is not your flowers or cards, she is hoping for the right answer from you.
What you should be doing now is not to contact her for this period of time. She need some time to cool down and think of the relationship. You should also reflect on yourself and the relationship as well. Think of what really went wrong. Do not always coop yourself up at home, make some plans with your friends or family members. Go for a holiday if you want to. Just do anything to make you feel confident and better. However, do not attempt to get into another relationship immediately if you still want to get your girlfriend back. By the time when you ready to see her, you are already in your best form and not someone who is showing neediness. Most men do the wrong things after a break up and ended up losing the woman they love the most.